The Mom Psychologist
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How to teach kids about body safety & consent
I don’t know about you but I was never taught about body safety or consent. Let alone my growing body, puberty or sex. It just wasn't the type of conversations I had with my parents. Left to my own devices, friends and media became my biggest teachers.
I don’t want this for my kids.
I want to be involved in helping them understand boundaries, their bodies, and how to keep themselves safe.
I want to give you my 7-step process on teaching kids about body consent and safety.
TIMESTAMPS:
► Introduction- 00:22
► Step 1- 02:04
► Step 2- 03:11
► Step 3- 05:02
► Step 4- 07:24
► Step 5- 08:20
► Step 6- 09:20
► Step 7- 10:57
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How to set boundaries around certain TV shows & apps? Q&A with Dr. J
Просмотров 43612 часов назад
So your child has been watching a certain TV show or playing on a certain app and you’ve realized that you no longer want them on it. You want to set a boundary but you also know how upsetting this will be for them. What do you do?! In this episode, I’ll share the exact script to use during these moments and important things to keep in mind! To listen to more of my Q&A with Dr. J series ► rucli...
Top Recommended Children’s Media by a Child Psychologist (Ages 2-10) (Movies, Shows, & Apps)
Просмотров 34421 час назад
When it comes to screen time - my biggest tip is to make sure your children are exposed to quality content. To me, quality boils down to being: 👶🏽Age appropriate (made exactly for your child’s age range and development). 📚Educational and/or inspiring (versus just entertaining). 💃🏽Engaging and interactive (encourages them to participate either by calling out answers, dancing, sharing their ideas...
How to help your child navigate “mean kids” at school | Q&A with Dr. J The Mom Psychologist
Просмотров 675День назад
Uh oh! You just got word that your child is being excluded by kids at school. Other kids are saying hurtful things and don’t let your child play with them. You feel horrible and want this to STOP. You want your child to wake up and stop being friends with them but you also don’t want them to feel judged and shut down. In this episode, I’ll share: Best ways to respond in these moments so your ch...
Steal My Go-To Parenting Phrases For the Most Challenging Situations
Просмотров 40914 дней назад
As a psychologist and mom of three, I don’t always know the right things to say at the right times nor do I always say things how I mean to say them. What helps me is having a few go-to phrases to fall back on during stressful moments because it helps me to redirect my focus to what matters - my relationship with my child. Here are a few of my favorite go-to parenting phrases for intense moment...
“You like my sister more than me!” How to respond | Q&A with Dr. J The Mom Psychologist
Просмотров 22914 дней назад
So lately your child has been saying some really shocking things like “You like my sister more than me!” or “I’m such a boring kid!” You’re trying to stay curious and get her to open up about her feelings but it keeps happening and each time she says it, it really stings. What do you do? In this episode, I’ll share: Why kids resort to these phrases & what they’re really trying to say How to res...
Top 5 things to teach your child by age 5 (+ Kindergarten prep)
Просмотров 54621 день назад
90% of your child’s brain develops by age 5. To ‘develop’ is to change, and your child’s brain is changing at rapid speed. Here are the top 5 things to make sure you start teaching your child by age 5 in order to maximize this growth period & set your child up for success. TIMESTAMPS: ► Introduction: 00:27 ► Skill 1: 02:11 ► Skill 2: 06:43 ► Skill 3: 11:18 ► Skill 4: 19:25 ► Skill 5: 21:55 Book...
“That’s not fair!” How to respond | Q&A with Dr. J The Mom Psychologist
Просмотров 22821 день назад
“That’s not fair!” How to respond | Q&A with Dr. J The Mom Psychologist
Struggling With Parenting? This Might Be Why. | 6 Truths to Make Your Life Easier
Просмотров 49028 дней назад
Struggling With Parenting? This Might Be Why. | 6 Truths to Make Your Life Easier
Morning power struggles | Q&A with Dr. J | The Mom Psychologist
Просмотров 833Месяц назад
Morning power struggles | Q&A with Dr. J | The Mom Psychologist
How to Teach Kids About "Tricky People" & Body Safety and Consent
Просмотров 494Месяц назад
How to Teach Kids About "Tricky People" & Body Safety and Consent
How to handle toddler tantrums & discouragement (w/o burnout!) | Q&A w/ Dr. J | The Mom Psychologist
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How to handle toddler tantrums & discouragement (w/o burnout!) | Q&A w/ Dr. J | The Mom Psychologist
How to Discipline in Public | Q&A with Dr. J | The Mom Psychologist
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How to Discipline in Public | Q&A with Dr. J | The Mom Psychologist
5 Phrases to Avoid Saying to Your Child (& what to try instead!) | The Mom Psychologist
Просмотров 832Месяц назад
5 Phrases to Avoid Saying to Your Child (& what to try instead!) | The Mom Psychologist
Bedtime Battles: The #1 Way to Avoid Power Struggles (Q&A with Dr. J)
Просмотров 785Месяц назад
Bedtime Battles: The #1 Way to Avoid Power Struggles (Q&A with Dr. J)
How to Raise Critical Thinkers - Step-by-Step Guide
Просмотров 470Месяц назад
How to Raise Critical Thinkers - Step-by-Step Guide
3 Life Changing Lessons My Mom Taught Me (+ Life Update)
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3 Life Changing Lessons My Mom Taught Me ( Life Update)
5 Common Child Behaviors Translated
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5 Common Child Behaviors Translated
Top 3 Mistakes Parents Make When Setting Boundaries
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Top 3 Mistakes Parents Make When Setting Boundaries
My Daughter Said, "I'm Stupid!" - Here's How I Responded
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My Daughter Said, "I'm Stupid!" - Here's How I Responded
Exactly How to Handle Aggressive Behaviors in the Moment
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Exactly How to Handle Aggressive Behaviors in the Moment
Have an Impatient or Demanding Kid?! Here's How to Respond!
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Have an Impatient or Demanding Kid?! Here's How to Respond!
How I Handle Negative Behaviors Picked Up From School
Просмотров 1,5 тыс.6 месяцев назад
How I Handle Negative Behaviors Picked Up From School
When Your Child Is Being "Rude" Teach Them To Say This!
Просмотров 4,3 тыс.6 месяцев назад
When Your Child Is Being "Rude" Teach Them To Say This!
Kids Who Know How To Manage Their Anger Are Taught These Skills
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Kids Who Know How To Manage Their Anger Are Taught These Skills
As parents, we’re approaching connection all wrong!
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As parents, we’re approaching connection all wrong!
6 Questions to Ask Teacher When Child Misbehaves At School
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.7 месяцев назад
6 Questions to Ask Teacher When Child Misbehaves At School
My 5 Year Old Has Been "Rude" Lately, Here's What I've Been Doing
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.7 месяцев назад
My 5 Year Old Has Been "Rude" Lately, Here's What I've Been Doing
How to De-Escalate An Angry Child
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How to De-Escalate An Angry Child
Instead of teaching kids to avoid screens, teach them this!
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Instead of teaching kids to avoid screens, teach them this!

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  • @stephie7926
    @stephie7926 День назад

    Thank you for sharing all this valuable information! I teach PreK and was looking for videos to share with our parents to help them out. Thank you Dr. Jazmine!

  • @karliesky4342
    @karliesky4342 День назад

    Thank you for this!

  • @erikarodriguez3748
    @erikarodriguez3748 День назад

    Thank you!

  • @rosiep3579
    @rosiep3579 5 дней назад

    Thank you for this. I literally stopped my 3 year old from watching a show that had themes that did not align with our family values. She has been asking why she can’t watch it and this has been super helpful

  • @JAH-iu3yh
    @JAH-iu3yh 5 дней назад

    BLUEY is a double sided coin for me personally. Of course it is cute & has very sweet, touching relatable moments….. but it also has snarky replies from the kids, not a lot of realistic discipline from the parents, and the squealing laughter 🙉 ugh. Does anyone else feel this way about this super popular show? I get why people love it, and have enjoyed it but don’t let my kids watch multiple episodes of it in a row anymore. Of Behaviors are so influential!

  • @TheMomPsychologist
    @TheMomPsychologist 5 дней назад

    Need parent coaching & a community of like-minded parents? Join my private membership. www.themompsychologist.com/membership

  • @lovekolandrob
    @lovekolandrob 5 дней назад

    This is literally one of the best channels! Thank you for answering and guiding us with answers to so many important questions.

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist 6 дней назад

    I am so glad I found you. I feel like I am being repainted as I am parenting my child.

  • @user-hm3ou8fk1p
    @user-hm3ou8fk1p 8 дней назад

    Wonder why I can’t get khan on apple computer

  • @TheMomPsychologist
    @TheMomPsychologist 9 дней назад

    Watch my Workshop: How to get kids to listen without yelling training for free here: - www.themompsychologist.com/workshop

  • @amulenjuliet9925
    @amulenjuliet9925 9 дней назад

    The way my toddler would pee on the floor just so she can get to clean up 🤣🤣🤣🤣she loves cleaning and isn't bothered about sitting in her pee and poo

  • @jadebutler1495
    @jadebutler1495 10 дней назад

    Where can I ask you a parenting question?

  • @bjarnetungland4544
    @bjarnetungland4544 10 дней назад

    Great video

  • @TheMomPsychologist
    @TheMomPsychologist 11 дней назад

    Need parent coaching & a community of like-minded parents? Join my private membership. www.themompsychologist.com/membership

  • @kellykealey9436
    @kellykealey9436 11 дней назад

    “There isn’t a problem, that we can’t solve together.” This works well for my 5 year old 💗

  • @lioneska8771
    @lioneska8771 11 дней назад

    Thank you so much! ❤❤❤ I will use them. “Us against the issue” 😊

  • @BrellyCal
    @BrellyCal 11 дней назад

    My child’s friend group is all around toxic. They are 9/10 and it’s been going on for years. Lots of friends on/off situations. I wish there were more resources for when your child is the aggressor. It always seems to be focused on the “good” child and not the “bad” child. I use quotes because I know that’s not really correct, but it does have that undertone. I’m dealing with both sides of the coin!

  • @dailynnselmon9664
    @dailynnselmon9664 12 дней назад

    I need this do you have a video dealing with attitudes and talking back my 5 year old is going through this bad

    • @juliana.x0x0
      @juliana.x0x0 12 дней назад

      Hahaha saaaammeeee! I'm thinking it's just the age/stage? Feeling more independent and trying to assert themselves? Hang in there mama!!!❤

  • @yaldarashid7597
    @yaldarashid7597 12 дней назад

    This video is such a great motivator! I’ve noticed myself kind of worn out and slipping on these things, but I’m reminded of all the things you teach us here and IG. Thank you!

  • @blkbeauty321
    @blkbeauty321 12 дней назад

    My 7 year old have been diagnosed with adhd..At the age of two my mom had her fully potty trained and when I tell you she has never had accident at home or school not even once its kind of unbelievable..as an infant she hated poop and pee on her.I can imagine how hard it is to deal with🙏

  • @bewithasn9195
    @bewithasn9195 13 дней назад

    are all of these full free apps or are there any in app purchases ? cause I tried few apps where after couple of levels they asked for subscription. plz confirm that all are free apps fully without any sort of payment.

  • @TheMomPsychologist
    @TheMomPsychologist 14 дней назад

    Watch my Workshop: How to get kids to listen without yelling training for free here: - www.themompsychologist.com/workshop

  • @xaviergarner6750
    @xaviergarner6750 14 дней назад

    Work on Yourself and Discipline yourself to help Make a Better Place

  • @CammiDutton
    @CammiDutton 15 дней назад

    My youngest boy is 3 years old. He sleeps like a newborn baby.. wakes up on and off all night long.. still wants a bottle at night.. which is getting really hard to break... I am currently 14 weeks pregnant and I feel like I can't do it anymore but I am lost in words and I don't know what to do :( he also sleeps in my room on my bed with me :'c

  • @Castelb1
    @Castelb1 15 дней назад

    Hello! I am looking into the membership but I don’t think the page is working, is this correct?

  • @soniacohen4671
    @soniacohen4671 15 дней назад

    Love love your videos thankyou

  • @Water4Seeds
    @Water4Seeds 16 дней назад

    Great advice! ❤❤❤

  • @zion367
    @zion367 16 дней назад

    Its interesting to me how so many people have problems calling the behaviour of a child manipulative. If we let go of judging the label we are more capable of honestly accessign the behaviour and guide them towards succes. Denying, enabling or justifying this behaviour will set a child up for failure. As a parent you might be blind to their strategies, but I assure you that when they are grown its the lack of you guidance for those behaviours that will cause them to have failed marriages, job relations, friendships and

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist 17 дней назад

    "It's OK if your child is bored"....thank you thank you.

  • @wendy8617
    @wendy8617 17 дней назад

    Never regret listening to your videos. I’m always able to learn something new and reaffirm things that I am doing, which helps to give me confidence that I am doing a good job.

  • @imralljoshae5978
    @imralljoshae5978 17 дней назад

    I do this with my high schoolers!! They love it lol it .

  • @christy4531
    @christy4531 18 дней назад

    I can’t see the caption. Omg what is the most important part. Send help lol

  • @LaydeeHijabee
    @LaydeeHijabee 18 дней назад

    Yes reality definitely did not meet my expectations today. Absolutely angry 😫

  • @CaitlinP1805
    @CaitlinP1805 19 дней назад

    My kindergartner told me yesterday that she wanted to be her twin sister because "she is skinny and I am fat" 😭 she has always been bigger than her twin and this year she has really started to notice this even though I've read books and told her that all bodies are good bodies. Yesterday her twin learned to ride a bike with no training wheels before she did (even though I was teaching them at the same time) and she started crying and then said that. It broke my heart. I told her that her ability to learn how to ride a bike had nothing to do with her body size. Ugh 💔

  • @TheMomPsychologist
    @TheMomPsychologist 19 дней назад

    Need parent coaching & a community of like-minded parents? Join my private membership. www.themompsychologist.com/membership

  • @mandyjoi7015
    @mandyjoi7015 20 дней назад

    Girrrrrrrrrrl! Our son will be 4 in October and I've started this conversation (literally) this weekend. Seeing this let's me know I'm in the right track. I love saying "tricky people" and will be adding that into my momma bag for these conversations. Gonna grabs these books too. From one mama to another, I appreciate this timely video and YOU! ❤😘

  • @miajean352
    @miajean352 20 дней назад

    Wow 🥰😍you’re amazing!!!! What a huge help you are and filled with wisdom and experience. Thank you so much!!!

  • @ivygitau4655
    @ivygitau4655 20 дней назад

    What about my 8 year old girl crying all the time?

  • @miakarakaki4062
    @miakarakaki4062 21 день назад

    Thank you I do think on top of stress I do think she has a GI infection

  • @JanetMoglia-dc3br
    @JanetMoglia-dc3br 21 день назад

    How do I find your E-book to download?

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist 21 день назад

      You can find all my ebooks and courses on my website - www.themompsychologist.com 🌻

  • @lydiasnow3638
    @lydiasnow3638 22 дня назад

    Thank you for these tips, I will certainly try these going forward. Boy, oh boy, I definitely have a strong-willed little boy 😅

  • @Lmkheather
    @Lmkheather 22 дня назад

    Wow that does feel good on my body or here’s what we can do instead ❤

  • @_ojosdegato
    @_ojosdegato 22 дня назад

    She’s been whining since she was 6 months old and is now almost 14 months. I have extreme insomnia and pain everywhere so this is just a bit too much. I feel that the past 3 days I have started to lose my patience but just for a few seconds but no matter what I do it seems to not work! She’s too smart lol

  • @QweetWitFo
    @QweetWitFo 22 дня назад

    How do I do this with my 9 year old I’m just now finding out about this. I know I suck. But I didn’t get this growing up. But what could I do with her ? She likes dog grooming if that helps

  • @CassandraWest-ob7ek
    @CassandraWest-ob7ek 23 дня назад

    Hey! I really appreciate this video. I'm hoping it helps me regulate my child's behaviour a little better. My situation, though, is that my son, who is 2 and a half, often asks one of his cousins to leave a room. It's not my sons house, so I don't find this acceptable, and neither would I feel comfortable asking this person to leave the room. How can I talk about this to my son ?

  • @TheMomPsychologist
    @TheMomPsychologist 23 дня назад

    Watch my Workshop: How to get kids to listen without yelling training for free here: - www.themompsychologist.com/workshop

  • @NormaCervantes
    @NormaCervantes 23 дня назад

    I’m here to learn 😊

  • @Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S
    @Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S 23 дня назад

    LOVE THIS! SPOT ON! I used to work in the school system. Now im a work at home mom of 2-4(bonus youth). Love this!!! Thank you!!

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist 23 дня назад

      Ahh so glad this connected with you. Thanks for tuning in. ❤

  • @e.b.wilson3665
    @e.b.wilson3665 23 дня назад

    So excited to watch this!

  • @TheJennyJenJenn
    @TheJennyJenJenn 23 дня назад

    Thank you! I learn so much from you